Tuesday, April 10, 2012

Fairytale beginnings to learn about life

The conventions of Once Upon a Time and Happily Ever After have led to fairytales being misunderstood as sappy little fables with no bearing on modern life, which need to be either teased or mutilated to please a contemporary audience.

http://www.guardian.co.uk/commentisfree/2012/apr/06/mirror-mirror-not-fairest-them-all
"It is generally accepted that fairytales introduce children to the dark side of life while keeping the horror at a safe distance. Any threat should be fantastical and impossible, and confined to an absorbing and tangentially familiar storyline

As adults we remain affected by the lessons we have learned from fairytales. Rather than using a narrative frame to guide us in our movements, we bend our experiences to fit the storyline – whichever comedy or gothic horror, or romance best suits our needs at the time. Thus, with hindsight, we recast friends, lovers, family as the wicked witch, the true love, the ingĂ©nue. A love affair can be beset with disasters, coincidences, chaos and lost slippers, and if it works out it is cast as "meant to be". If it fails, it was clearly a disaster waiting to happen.
Our heroes switch places with our villains with every family feud and unveiled secret. Our successes and our failures become inevitable once they are behind us. The longer we linger, the more complicated Once Upon a Time becomes, until we feel that we've lived several existences and been several characters. Sometimes the people we have been knit nicely together, other times they clunk together uneasily like disparate charms on a bracelet. We parcel our lives up into segments, in which the moment – this very second – is The End."

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